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The "funny" thing is, the first thing almost anyone says to someone new (I'll bet this includes the banned posters) isread DR! The nose is getting cut off to spite the face! fw posts that might not be textbook DB advice, and someone gets banned? Or posts are deleted without explanation. I imagine that there are a lot of books sold as a result of people finding this site. A mass exodus, as in the SSM forum, isn't going to help that, is it?

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Why have the posts I have written today been deleted ??


There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
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WHAT? Now you BND????

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I responded to some posts on this thread and the banned thread by Old Timer and now they have been deleted.


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I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
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Well, this may sound odd but I'm so glad to have found this thread, 'cause it explains so much. I've only been visiting the board once a week or so, and I thought I had entered the twilight zone when I saw all the weird new thread titles and the missing resources links.

So....in addition to hating censorship on principle, I have to say that some of the naively Pollyannaish advice being dispensed is downright dangerous, not to mention insensitive. I really can't imagine that within hours of having told a teenage child about an impending D, that I want or need to hear "Ok now, that's all very fine and good, but what you really need is to get you some goals." Gag.

Like brue, I'm turning 54 in days, and I don't want or need to waste time in a forum where the advice is indiscriminately dispensed without any reference to the individual's particular situation. That is lazy and disrespectful, in my not so humble opinion.

There. That felt good, didn't it!

AmyC, BND, and others, stand firm!

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BND, if a post you respond to is deleted, your response get whacked, too.

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Originally Posted By: Bworl

I had been banned because of the negativity in my posts.


Well, I should think SO!

My goodness, isn't there enough negativity in our world? Don't you know that if you just think POSITIVE \:D your M will be saved? And if it isn't, it's just b/c you were too negative!!!

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Let's all go live in Utah! Let's set up a safe community where you can scream and cry and be forgiven.... {and UNDERSTOOD}

I am so sad. I feel as if I have lost a home. This is a comically new-age problem. "Friends, Lost in Cyber Space..."

Best wishes,

Not so Friendly, Flicka....

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HEY, I am in Utah and I am still not forgiven and definitely not safe (but if anyone wants to visit I'll be glad to show them around). <hehehehehehehehehe>


Sitting quietly doing nothing, the flowers bloom effortlessly.

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Hrnmmm...

When the people who normally don't get along band together...you know something is bad.

Now if me and BA start making all nice nice then you know its bad. : )



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Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

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