it can happen. Do whatever you can to be in the 40%.
Be the best you can be. Be kind to yourself. Any opportunity to let your H see you as doing fine and not looking for him to come home. Compliment him. Appriciate him. Support him, emotionally. Trust him, (as a human being)
This will inspire him to live up to your immage of him.
I think THAT is what I did best.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
