even if she told you she wants the M back, would you believe her? she is in a sorry state right now, not ready to be what you need her to beor even to make a half @ss promise (trust me btdt) It's like trying to squeeze water out of a rock.
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She still sounds somewhat determined to try things on her own again, which to me sounds like the same old failed life she just left.
How do you know? she HAS to do things on her own! she doesn't need a babysitter, she needs to grow up, it sounds like you want to protect her, but remember, you can't save a man/woman from him/herself. If she falls flat on her face she falls flat on her face and she'll just have to learn to get up. Don't run yourself ragged trying to catch her, she doesnt' want you to. Rehab, with God's blessing, should be helping her.
Dont' expect much when you see her and if you are going to offer your support be short and concise.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
