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Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4? Treese #1372139 02/29/08 09:05 PM
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newnamenewlife Member N Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 665	Treese, They avoid us because they feel guilty. When I asked my H a while ago why he suddenly felt uncomfortable leaning on me or touching me while we watched TV, he said it was because he felt such self-loathing for what he'd done. I wanted to say ok, well then stop doing it, but now that he's come out with IDLYA and has stopped "living a lie," he wants to live "truly." It feels untrue for him to be affectionate or sexual with me because he doesn't have the love feelings that go along with it. Would I call this OVERTHINKING things just a teeny bit? YES! But that's my H for you. We are one of the mirrors that they can't look in or they will see themselves. (Do I sound like a MLC pro or what? Grace--don't I?) Me/X-H: 47/48 T 19 yrs M 16 years D14 D10 ILYBINILWY: 10/07 H moved out 6/08

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How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/21/08 11:30 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	job	02/21/08 11:36 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Virtually_Handsome	02/21/08 11:36 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Grace_O	02/21/08 11:54 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/22/08 12:08 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Virtually_Handsome	02/22/08 12:12 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/22/08 12:17 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Virtually_Handsome	02/22/08 12:20 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/22/08 02:15 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/22/08 12:04 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	theotherhalf	02/22/08 03:04 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	MidwesternGirl	02/22/08 05:13 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/22/08 11:33 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	tpaschal	02/22/08 12:05 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/22/08 12:20 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Nature Girl	02/22/08 01:11 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	tpaschal	02/22/08 01:27 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/23/08 01:23 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	MidwesternGirl	02/23/08 01:28 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	MidwesternGirl	02/23/08 01:33 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	MidwesternGirl	02/23/08 01:33 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	job	02/22/08 06:08 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	SirPrizeMe	02/23/08 03:56 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/23/08 01:07 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	MidwesternGirl	02/23/08 01:21 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/23/08 01:32 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/23/08 01:33 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/23/08 01:33 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	MidwesternGirl	02/23/08 01:36 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/23/08 01:38 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Virtually_Handsome	02/23/08 02:14 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Sandyof5	02/23/08 02:25 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	MidwesternGirl	02/23/08 03:06 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Virtually_Handsome	02/23/08 03:30 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	MidwesternGirl	02/23/08 04:48 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Virtually_Handsome	02/23/08 04:55 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Sandyof5	02/23/08 06:35 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Virtually_Handsome	02/23/08 06:40 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	SirPrizeMe	02/23/08 10:50 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	SirPrizeMe	02/23/08 10:52 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/23/08 11:19 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	SirPrizeMe	02/23/08 11:21 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/24/08 12:07 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/25/08 03:18 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Sandyof5	02/25/08 03:42 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Sandyof5	02/25/08 03:46 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	SirPrizeMe	02/25/08 08:05 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Virtually_Handsome	02/25/08 08:46 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	ba065	02/26/08 12:11 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	ba065	02/26/08 12:13 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/26/08 12:23 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	enlightenbylife	02/26/08 12:56 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/26/08 01:07 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	enlightenbylife	02/26/08 01:12 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/26/08 02:24 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Goinbatty	02/26/08 02:20 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/26/08 02:37 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Goinbatty	02/26/08 05:10 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/26/08 10:31 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	ba065	02/26/08 10:51 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/27/08 02:08 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	SirPrizeMe	02/27/08 04:24 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/27/08 01:22 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	SirPrizeMe	02/27/08 03:52 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/27/08 03:53 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Virtually_Handsome	02/27/08 05:59 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/27/08 06:18 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	SirPrizeMe	02/27/08 06:25 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	cw68	02/27/08 06:27 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/27/08 06:34 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	SirPrizeMe	02/27/08 06:35 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	SirPrizeMe	02/27/08 06:43 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/27/08 07:34 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	merel	02/27/08 08:26 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/28/08 12:41 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	SirPrizeMe	02/28/08 02:04 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/28/08 02:26 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	SirPrizeMe	02/28/08 02:36 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/28/08 02:47 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Grace_O	02/28/08 03:54 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/28/08 04:12 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Grace_O	02/28/08 04:15 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	merel	02/28/08 05:42 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	newnamenewlife	02/28/08 06:54 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Virtually_Handsome	02/28/08 06:58 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	SirPrizeMe	02/28/08 09:26 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/29/08 03:13 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Grace_O	02/29/08 03:33 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/29/08 06:50 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	newnamenewlife	02/29/08 09:05 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	ba065	02/29/08 09:24 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/29/08 10:29 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	newnamenewlife	03/01/08 02:18 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	03/01/08 04:17 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	SirPrizeMe	03/02/08 07:01 AM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	03/02/08 12:59 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	03/02/08 01:14 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Sandyof5	03/02/08 01:47 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	SirPrizeMe	03/02/08 02:49 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	SirPrizeMe	03/02/08 03:13 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	03/03/08 03:19 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	MidwesternGirl	03/03/08 04:44 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	03/03/08 05:07 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	SirPrizeMe	03/03/08 06:34 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	MidwesternGirl	03/03/08 06:39 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	03/03/08 06:48 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Virtually_Handsome	03/03/08 07:14 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	03/03/08 07:36 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Virtually_Handsome	03/03/08 07:44 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	ba065	03/03/08 07:48 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	03/03/08 07:55 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	SirPrizeMe	03/04/08 07:35 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	03/04/08 07:53 PM
Re: How do they look themselves in the mirror 4?	Treese	02/28/08 04:09 PM

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