SF- I don't remember all of the details of your sitch, but has he tried to find an "in-between" place before he moves home? Maybe he can stay with friends or family for a bit? Does OW know what's going on with him?

me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08