I forgot to tell you all that W is away out of town this weekend to see one of her good friends. I took her to the train station and as I saw her off we had a hug and a kiss and she said ILY Lan, I'll miss you this weekend. All I could say was have a nice time (Doh !). That's the first ILY since the bomb and I froze, I couldn't say ILY back.
Anyway, W has phoned to say she's arrived safely she didn't say ILY this time but she kept thanking me for all my help.
So despite all my ramblings about forgiveness etc I was forgetting about the real progress W and I are making in our R.