[quote=GoingForward] there any reason he can't grab a toothbrush and some clothes and be moved back in even if it takes a few weeks to get all his belongings over?
I agree with Neecy. My H is ready to spend the weekend with OW in about 5 minutes time so that seems a lame excuse to me. If he isn't willing to spend 5 or 10 minutes packing to avoid the divorce, then what does that say about how badly he really wants to avoid the divorce? He may say he wants to avoid the divorce, but his actions don't seem to back that up (if he is not willing to spend a few minutes to pack an overnight bag) in my opinion. Sorry for my negativity today; I know some of that might be b/c of my situation so take my advice with a grain of salt GF! Karen43