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Dear DB'ers -

We are so glad that you are here. We're happy you found us and we welcome you with open arms. We exist to offer you hope and help, proven Divorce Busting help, to get your marriage back on track and keep your families together. Some of you may have noticed a certain amount of bickering lately among some of our members. Well, that just goes to prove how passionate we all are about being here. It's impossible for such a large community to agree on everything. And sometimes we get 'off track'. However, one thing we do agree on is that Divorce Busting principles and techniques work! Many long-time DB'ers are here offering sage advice, support, and encouragement due to the fact that because of Divorce Busting, they are now in loving, long-term marriages. They will tell you what has worked for them -- and offer you support and suggestions based on their success. Our intention and our hope is that everyone here will re-focus on the purpose and principles of the Divorce Busting Community. Let's remind ourselves why we are here, and commit to moving forward in the spirit of Divorce Busting -- positive, supporting, encouraging. Thanks for being part of the DB family!

And one more thing, let's remember that Divorce Busting and these messageboards are Michele's wonderful gift to all of us
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Virginia Peeples
Vice President
The Divorce Busting Center
virginia@divorcebusting.com

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My reply in the other forum:




The members of your boards are not fighting amongst themselves.
Please get that straight before you ask someone to excuse us.

We are fighting against the methods of one of your moderators, sgctxok.

She has come into a place WE call home, where a moderator has barely cast so much as a SHADOW in the 2+ years I have been here, changed everything around, started telling us HOW to post to one another, removed very helpful links from the top of the MLC forum and in the midst of her little reign of terror she has BANNED certain members for NO obvious reasons and with no apparent violation of the website's rules.

These were longtime, well-respected members, not drive-by posters. The inconsistencies in her banning are questionable at best since she banned one week and let a few of the same people back shortly thereafter without so much as saying "my bad".

Until this mess, I looked up to moderators.
Jamesjohn used to pop in here and there with some good stuff but now I hear he's got a bigger stick. That's great for him but if the moderators want to join the party, get us someone with some integrity, someone that's been where we've been and NOT someone who is just going to sound like somebody else's puppet. We don't respect that.

Sg offers nothing but window dressing because she hasn't gotten to know anyone before she swooped in and started ruling with her iron mouse and narrow mind. Sg's lack of consideration, lack of leadership SKILLS, and the condescending tone of ALL of her replies has not only shot her credibility to hell, but it's taking the other moderator's down with hers.

Clearly you are not being given the whole truth to this matter, Virginia.

It's either that or you're spinning crap too and I would really be disappointed if I were to find out that is the case.



AmyC