Perhaps the best thing is to just 'be there' and just listen. I know one thing....I would NOT discuss anything short of saying, if you really mean it, that you support her efforts to work on herself and getting well. Still..without begging, pleading, etc, you can still just tell her that you are available for her if she needs to talk. If you really mean that....you DO want her back someday...and can do it without huge expectations, why not just say that before leaving?

Play it be ear. Be supportive. Listen. Stay the rock.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;