Yay on the kiss! That's definitely an experiment to repeat. *cheers*
I think on the moving thing, maybe something along the lines of, hey I wanted to let you know that I am thinking about what you said, I just need some time?
I think the card is a good idea especially if you focus on new beginnings and creating a new relationship instead of the old one.
I definitely am in the same boat with you in making/letting my H feel independent. It's a hard balance for me. But that and admiration are the two things I have to compete with OW on I think.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2