Just journalling.. but if you'd like to comment please feel free too.. oh and SG.. yes, I will stop by Karla's thread tonight.
So today I sent my H an email. It is rare for me to initiate any contact with him. It was one of the "quote of the day" emails.. he responded with a Thanks. Great quote
Not sure what I was hoping to hear back.. his response lacked luster but oh well.. there was a friendly happy face thrown in there..
About an hour later my H calls me.. just checking in.. wanted to see how D2 was, how my day was going.. blah, blah blah.. "Hopefully D2 will adjust to his absense soon".. We get on to better subjects.. can't recall what but we chuckle and laugh.. have very friendly conversation. We hang up.
He calls back but has to leave a message. Asks me to call him back as he has news. I call him back. He heard from the orthodontist and will likely get to have his surgery in April which is ideal timing for him.. he is very happy about this.. he once again mentions needing to get internet for his Mom's place (the apartment he is staying in)... I say nothing.. he moves on to another topic.. I start affirming again.. I talk to him about a jacket that I want which is kind of expensive and he said that if I like it I should get it. Once again.. very friendly, laughing, witty banter.. we once again end the conversation.
I go for my lunch break.. and I buy the jacket that I wanted.. I get back to my desk and voila.. a messege. H again has news and wants me to call him back. I call him back. He proceeds to tell me that he's joined a gym and started this morning and that he's really happy about it and that he got a fantastic deal.. blah, blah, blah.. He can use his membership in multiple locations.. one of which is not too far from our house.. I affirm, say I'm glad he's so happy about it and is taking such good care of himself. Then I told him I bought my coat and he said he knew that's where I was when he called during my lunch break. Once again, a lot of banter and fun talk.. and that's it.
Will see him tonight though.. he's coming to the house for his visit with D2.