I am so sorry, Jen... ((((((((hug))))))))

It was not your H speaking, it's his MLC, you know that.

I was just reading the MLC archives, here is the link if you haven't read it already:

MLC Resources-all links in one thread

There is also another one (cannot find it now) by Snodderly "Why they run" (or something like that), also great.

Try not to beat yourself up now. It is hard to avoid pitfalls when you have a R conversation, esp when your H just filed for D!

Take a deep breath and keep DBing. I hope your books come soon.

I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders
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M 46
H 45
D 17
M/T 23
Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06
Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07
Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08