Imageer, good to see you up and at 'em still. Miss talking to you. My W had a weird "fantasy" when all this started that we would still be together and she had this OP on the side even in our old age. Definitely her fantasy, not mine. Call me old fashioned but I think of M as monogamous.
(And, our conversations in the past, still makes me doubt she is really a lesbian -- maybe a lesbian for now but more temporary until it gets old)
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God