ph, hang in there. It sounds like something scares him to feel too close to someone. Maybe it makes him too vulnerable.

Has he had issues with someone, in his past, that he was completely open with, giving his heart, and was terribly hurt?

Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God