I only hope and pray the loss of this wonderful animal will awake your spouse in seeing what a wonderful loving person you are.
Sometimes it takes a crisis for one to get out of a crisis.
I can't help but look for a silver lining in your sitch.
Take care of you and the children...
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
so sorry about your dog. I know it's tough to lose a part of the family.
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About the TM I sent H, I know you all think it was good, but H was not pleased with it. As a matter of fact it bugs him like hell....he does not like being told what to do.
stuck out at me when skimming through your posts. Of course he doesn't like being told what to do, but as long as it's something that you can control (like him talking to OW in YOUR house) then you have every right to ask him to honor your request.
I think in the end he will actually respect you more for it even though at first it may tick him off and make him mad. It will let him see that you've grown a backbone and can hold your own and even though he may never let you know, he will most likely find it very attractive.
BFM
There is only one person who could ever make you happy, and that person is you. David Burns, Intimate Connections
