He says he will move in, he'll start moving his things back over the next couple of weeks or so. He just needs a little more time, and he's sorry that it's taking him so long.
Is there any reason he can't grab a toothbrush and some clothes and be moved back in even if it takes a few weeks to get all his belongings over? If he wants to come back why does it need to take a long time? I understand he wanted to pay the rent, but that doesn't mean he needs to stay and get his money's worth.
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He told me how he's not even prepared to go on Tuesday, and he doesn't want to go in there looking like an idiot.
This concerns me a little, I would hope looking ill prepared would be the least of his worries if you decided to go through with the D he is claiming so adamantly not to want.
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I want to give my boys the chance to have both parents back in their day-to-day lives. I want to give the R a chance. I want to make the right choice.
I don't want to be sorry for making another bad decision. I don't want to regret having stopped everything because nothing happened again. I don't want this next month to go by and see that H still isn't back.
Play both situations out which would be the larger regret? Not taking the chance and going through with the D and not knowing what would have happened if you did? or Not going through with the D and filing again a few months down the road because the risk didn't pan out?
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009
