Things are fantastic. No hint of any affairs, etc. I have kept up most of my changes that I made when I was here. I still try to validate but fail more than I'd like. I still try to keep the romance on, and in that department, things are better than ever too. W says a lot how happy she is with me and how great she knows she has it.
Actually OM came up a few weeks ago when his new girlfriend (yes, that's right HIS new girlfriend) called my W and told her that OM was talking about offing himself and that my W was who he wanted to talk to. W told her to F-off but was upset about it. I understood but in the end told her that it was not her responsibility to do anything other than what was best for OUR family, not his or anyone else's. She agreed.
After that little drama, we talked a bit more about the sitch, and then it was gone. I think the key that made it really a non-issue was that I clearly told her I didn't give much of a damn and while I totally understand her not wanting to see someone hurt or die, I would not be cool at all with her getting involved. He clearly has people around him who care so let THEM care for him. I don't think she would have gotten involved but at the end of the day she was in my arms crying not just over the crappy way these people tried to rope her into a crap situation but how supportive I was. She said over and over how lucky she was to have me and feel like she could talk to me.
Of course we have our moments. I think we actually fight more now than ever but then again it was not anger but apathy that almost split us so passion in all it's incarnations is a welcome addition to our marriage
