I hope this isnt too bold a question to voice here.. But do women ever push their lover away as a test? A test to see how you will respond? When I get the "go away" sign, I do just that, I go away. Usualy scratching my head as to why. And if that might be the case what is the best way to respond? Maybe she feels im not interested becuase I just back off so easy? This isn't my first rodeo for lack of better words, and this concept of pushing away is new to me. What saddens me the most is in the first few months of our relationship, I actualy had to push her away on a couple of ocasisions cause I actualy could'nt keep up with her! Now, I get pushed away regularly, what a twist!