Listen, I hear your intimidation loud and clear! You have got to stop that right now. He chose you out of all the women he knew to marry and he has a child with you and he has a history with you. If this OW is what you think she is, she won't stay with him long b/c she will want more attention from more than one man. Your H just happens to be the new guy on the block right now is why she is giving him the time of day. The sooner your H discovers that she is self-centered and wants to have attention on her all the time, he will tire of that and go back to your warm arms. He knows he can find honesty with you.
Honey, you need to talk to somebody or read something to help your own self esteem right now. And the advice to do this for yourself is so true! It has to be for you and nobody else for it to last. Only when we feel good about ourselves are we any good for anyone else. I know that from my own experiences. It has been proven over and over again in my own life. So, go to work girl!
We care about you, so keep coming back, ok?
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
