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[quote=CMNM]Oh, and Cagzmom,

This changes nothing. Nothing, do you hear me??? I am handling this today because of how far I have come. I just got done talking (IM) with my, uh, XH (wow, I never said that before), and there was a lot said.


It changes nothing. true.

You said you have been at this for what 2 1/2 years? WOW!

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The old me would have tried to wedge my foot in this door. The new me? I know that if it closes yet again that it wasn't meant to be open.


Right now I know many many things about me. I too would try and "wedge" but I have stopped...I stopped in September. I am learning to deal with my own choices... and that is what has been hard for me.


M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06
Moved out 3/12/07
D final 7/30/2008
finding myself again