Should you let her go? If she wants to go.......for real, what could you do to stop her? On the other hand, don't open the door for her or help her pack her bags. You have got to study the DR book. It has the answers you are looking for. I don't know what you meant by the statement you are a lesser man now than you use to be, but you need to become the man she fell in love with. Everything the people here on the board have told you so far has been good advice. Listen and keep coming back.

Sandi

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!