Fish,
I am happy for you.
It is wonderful that you and your Wife are both willing to work on the Marriage.

I also wanted to say that what you and your Wife have been through is the typical 7 year itch.

DBing is perfect for that and the solution oriented way of solving problems really works.

There are some here who have a Spouse in MLC who will not see results so quickly, because you are dealing with a Mental illness which is not the same as having communication problems or being bored or feeling unfulfilled, etc.


Again Fish, I wish you well, take things slowly and let her set the pace for now.

((((((((((hugs))))))))))

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.