So you blew your stack. Big Whoop. If that ends the marriage then it was hangin' by a thread anyway. Furgedabowdit. You'll learn to just ignore her spew-fests. It really is a valuable skill. Before long, she'll be unloading some truckload of bile on you about how she wasted the last 20 years married to your sorry butt and meanwhile, in your mind you're on a white sand beach with two buxom bikini babes rubbin' lotion on ya and your just looking at her with this stupid smile like a dog watching TV because all you hear, somewhere off in the distance, is this blah-blah-blah noise rising just above the sound off waves crashing on the beach in your mind.
That, my friend, is detachment. And you will get there.
Here's another example. Ever see that movie "Office Space"? Great movie. If you haven't, get it. Anyway, you need to be just like the main character, Peter, just after he gets hypnotized. Calm, confident, detached.
Hang tough.
Bomb
Me: 51 W: 50 M 24 yrs EA: since Apr 06 S22, S26, S28 ILYBNILWY:Nov 07
"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything." Tyler Durden
