Just keep your mind busy, buddy. Trust me. It is still very hard to be separated for me. There are times I am simply pacing my apartment. But then i go out on the porch and look at the sky. Then just start thinking of whatever comes to mind. One thing leads to another and boom, I am not thinking of her.

It just takes time. It does suck. But watch some stupid mind numbing movie, it may help. Exercise. Vent here. Anything.

We are with you man. And we all have the same thoughts. It popped into my mind yesterday that I truly miss my wife, but there is nothing I can do about this other than be a better person. Keep going.


Ken
Me: 37
Her: 38
Son: 8 (spina bifida)
Son:2
M 6/24/1994
S 1/21/2008
Original Sitch