Hahahahaha. And my friends all thing I'm weird for being so nice to my H. But me, I see how much it surprises him, and I know it makes him feel guilty about what he's doing. It's my small form of revenge!

MichelleLT said this.....I have been trying hard to create good memories and being positive. Last night my husband was very quiet and went in the bedroom alone and cried. His A is only about 1 and 1/2 months old now and at that time when he left us we were having dinner with the kids. Our son (4) and his daughter (11) whom I a close with too. I suspect he feels guilty and bad but not sure...it;s the first time since the A started that I saw this emotion from him. Could be regret or maybe the OW maybe him sad don't know


M 37
H 37
Married 2yrs (together 7yrs)
Son 4yrs old and H has Daughter 11 yrs old
H involved with OW since Jan 08 and still seeing OW
Still under same roof, but H spending more time with OW as time goes on