That is the question, isn't it Canuk? Overall, yes, things are better but I'm hurt and LONELY emotionally. I could branch out and get intimate emotionally with someone but we all know where that leads: "coffe, anyone?"...
Still going to counseling and I HOPE OW is finally out of the picture for good. I actually heard "I might as well decide that's it" so we shall see.
I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it. Stubby