I feel like I have been betrayed all over again. I have just lived through a year of hearing MY WAY OR THE HIGHWAY. I come here, bought the book, bought the couching sessions in order to seek help and support. But now it seems unless I say and do the "right thing" (whatever that is) it is the boot. I thought the idea was to learn and grow in order to better myself and my marriage. To do that I must be able to make mistakes and learn from them. If I have to live in fear of losing the support I so need at this point, how can I freely express myself to learn and grow? The very practice of banning people to control what is said seems so cruel to those still here. It makes me less certain that this site is here to help people in an honest way.
The treat of banning now hangs over my head if I disagree or say something a mod doesn't like. If it was someone that was abusing the board, I could understand. But RCR of all people. She was a huge DB fan and success. She inspired people. I would think she is the kind of person that would be welcomed here as she is such and advocate for DBing. Her posts kept me coming.
And perhaps that is why she was banned? She was too good at helping people? Is this some pointless power play?
