It'll be VERY difficult to find anyone that understands the struggle, the battle YOU are waging right now. 99.9% of people would just accept the D papers, go find a new love, and move on with life. In the meantime, they'll have missed out on one of the greatest opportunities of their lives. The chance to be humbled, to take a hard look at themselves through the eyes of the beings that know them best, their spouse and their God.
No, you'll have to look long and hard before you'll find anyone that understands. If you find a couple that were separated and or divorced and then reconciled, you'll probably find understanding. Otherwise, most people, family included, just can't understand. The understanding comes with the experience. If they haven't experienced it, they won't understand it.
God Bless the Struggle!
Love,
COG
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