Wow, Fish. You are doing great, and are one of the lucky ones! I know what you mean about wondering if another bomb is going to go off...I am sort of in that mindspace right now (I'll update my thread in a minute).

You have shown, beyond a doubt, that:
1. DB works if you give it time
2. She controls the sitch 100%

Nice work, buddy.

Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!