You mention it has been worse these last five weeks and also that she has being taking 'soft' drugs in the same time period. Surely there is likely to be a correlation here?
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength