Thank you all for your kind posts. I have been on these boards for about a 2 and a half years. I am sooo thnkful for Michelle and her books and the people here. I did win back my marriage but like I said my H did not change and I did. I learned so much from here and it gives me the strength I need to let go an dknow that I will be ok.
I know I have given this my all. Those that know me here I hope will back me up on that. I never wanted to give up until I knew I had done everything I can and I believe I have done that.
Thanks you Tia for coming out and posting -that means alot. well all of you guys do. I will post here some but will probably move over to the surviving thread. Sometimes you just have to save yourself. I tried so hard for so long. It does feel a little bad to give up after all that I have done but I must continue GAL for me and the kids.
Thanks so much again, Love,Lisa
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12