It is not too late! It is great that you have this insight about yourself and can stop repeating the mistakes. One thing I would like to remind you of is not to point out to him the changes you are making in yourself. If he says anything about it, then just reply that you are trying, and then leave it at that.
Always,
I agree and must add. Do not make these changes for HIM... Make them for yourself. If your only reason is for him then the changes will not stick. You will soon be back to your old ways. You will find it is soo rewarding to "find yourself again"
Take Care Dr Love.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
