Cat, That is absolutely true. We know that children are negatively affected by divorce. But they don't have to be. If the parents get along and work together to coparent, the children will do just great. I had read this when I was going through what I thought was going to be a D (we went to mediation and everything). Also my C told me the same thing.
I believe you and your H can have a very cordial relationship. A good guideline is to treat him like you would a business colleague. You don't have to be warm and gushy. But you should be cordial and respectful (even if you have to fake it).
I know it's hard. You can and will get through this.
Do somethign nice for yourself. How about getting yourself a massage or a pedicure?
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
