She stayed away last night as she had a drink but came back this morning.

She said that she doesn't want to try anymore and she doesnt love me, also that she wants to go pubbing and clubbing but without me.

She also asked me how I was doing, was my work ok and so on, also that she told the estate agent to do viewings and so on during the week when I was at work so as not to upset me.

She says I am not accepting that its over.

I said marriages are hard work and she said not this hard.

She said that marrying me was the easyist thing she has ever done and this divorce is the hardest thing she has ever done.

I don't know what to do, I love my wife more than anything. I also believe she loves me as well

What do I do, what can I do. Is it all words or does she mean it? I dont know and I am lost.

Me: 30
W: 31
T: 9.5 yrs
M: 4 Yrs
No Kids, 1 cat
Had a bad year
Turmoil started 22/Jan/08
Seperated, same house 30/Jan/08
Wanted D: 2/Feb/08
Going downhill and towards D with nothing stopping her!