She's Gone - No Contact

[NikB]

not wearing me out, but certainly it's good to hear alternate opinions!

If she responded, great. If no response, maybe OK - more waiting. If she returned it, I'd know definitely to move on.

I think it's a good time to think about what you mean by "move on."

To me.. moving on is letting go of the OLD R and moving past that. And I think now IS the time to do that, no matter what she says or does.

If something is to happen in the future.. treat it more like a "good lead" on a possible date, as opposed to an intense R you'd like to re-start. REALLY start from the beginning.

I guess I'm saying maybe reach out with care but NOT with the intent of re-starting your old R. Think about restarting something new, and see what happens.

EITHER way you can work on moving on.