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Well thing are getting a little tough with the kids they don't seem like they want to get up in the morning and get ready for school...moving slow and such. I try to keep a positive outlook but for right now it just doesn't seem to be enough for them to get motivated I know I need to wait this out that they will catch on.

This mornig I was alittle upset at my W, she had sent emails to the children telling them that she misses them and it has been a couple of days since she had talked to them. Then proceeded to tell my son that she knows he spends alot of on the computer playing one of his games and tells him that he could take two minutes to send her an email to let her know what is going on with him and his sister.

This bothers me for a couple of reasons.

First she only has dial up back in the United States and she is hardly online to begin with.

And second I always make sure that they are checking to see if she is online to chat to or something like that. I encourage them to write emails but they choose to do other things instead...i.e games, my space and such

Third I have sent her messages my self just telling her that if she has the time I would like to let her know what has been going on....All of which has been ignored, except in the first couple of days when the kids would tell her to talk to me.

Is the messages I am sending too much like pressure? I am not persueing just want to let her know what is going on with the children....but she seems to choose not to talk with me.