How many of you have had sexual relations with your spouse since they left?? And is it a bad idea or a bad thing if that were to happen?
W2G
My W and I have been going at it like jack rabbits these last few days. Don't know what triggered this new wrinkle to our ongoing saga and for sure there is a little bit of skepticism associated with it on my part. But in our case it does seem to be a natural occurence for us and we have both been totally monogamous. It still is kinda bazaar though considering that she served me D papers just 3 1/2 short weeks ago. Maybe it is no more bazaar than our own respective bazaarness.
Having sex when you are estranged fm one another, separated and living apart is not altogether uncommon it seems. You just have to make certain that it is really a consensual thing and that you keep your expectations, of what it will mean in the big picture, very low.
I am still in the midst of seeing how it will turn out for us. But it does seem to be drawing us together in more ways than just the obvious one. I am hopeful that it might cause her to seriously see some errors in her ways. Her acute loneliness is what was the catalyst for us to get back to our tried and true physical love experiences.
