hon, you can tell him 'til u are blue what to do, heck, my H lived w/me and sweared it was over, it never was. They have to come the realization themselves that the ow is wrong and detrimental to the M, dont' waste your breath on telling him to do this and that.
This is too painful, perhaps going dark will help you regroup and detach from his toxic behavior. My prayers your way.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
