I would like to thank you for your thoughts and advice!!
I feel in my sitch i have to move out. I can here the unsureness in my w's voice. In an earlier conversation I got a retroville plug in, W was claiming i would feel the same way about her that she feels about me after a while if i dont already. I said i wouldnt if you would go to counceling w/me to fig this out. She said she would need to be committed to it before she would go at all. I said retro isnt councelling and you are asked to go w/open minds, thats it(thanks sara). In a later conversation i brought up seperate bank accounts and asked how is this going to work with the kids. I really dont think she has thought everything through at all. She reminded me of one of my bosses at work, to the point of, just get it done not thinking at all how you get there.
Inlaws are coming this weekend. There turn to stay at our house. I get along good with them. I think it will be akward though. I volenteered to drill holes sat morning before kids ice fishing tournament. Expecting 300 kids this year. bil will bring his kids and pretty sure fil will go. s8 and d12 are going w/me. Going to see if mil will stop out to see its not as bad as she thinks. Either way its going to be fun.
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Me 37 W 37 D21 D17 D12 S8 grandparents 7/07 boy Married 16 yrs last June 07 Bomb dropped 4/07
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right-for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't", Eleanor Roosevelt
