I agree w/ the 48 hour rule, but I only have 36 before D skates. She skates the same time as the funeral. Even if she didn't, I'm sure H would not allow me to go. Heaven forbid I have contact w/ his precious friend.
At least sleeping on it is a good start, even if you can't get 48hrs to chew it over. I'll be interested to see what your H thinks he's going to do about your D... What a fool.
