Well I can't speak for H, but as for myself, I have to admit that I just don't know. That's a pitiful answer, I know, but it's the truth, and I believe it is because of H's ambivalence.
Oftentimes, the ambivalence of unfaithful partners is so hurtful and so confusing that injured partners react with their own ambivalence, vacillating between a desperate wish to stay and save the marriage and the wish to leave and save themselves from further harm. - Dr. Shirley Glass, "Not Just Friends"
This is my dilemma.
I don't want anymore disappointments, and I don't want H to come back if he is not 100% certain that he wants to be here. He's aware of the latter.
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I'm not sure real love exists with so much ambivalence.
I wonder this myself.
Love is a decision. How can one choose to make such a decision when they're not even sure they want the R or not?
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
