BTW: when she came back from the MC she said she told the MC that she was not very optimistic about us. That's a far cry from a month ago when she told the bad MC that she wanted out of this marrage.
baby step!
Maybe a chance for you to empathize? Like next time she says "I told MC I feel not very optimistic about us..." you could say - yeah, wow, that's... gotta be hard for you to feel that way.
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Maybe it is time for me to accept that she is gone and not coming back but I can not just give up.
Thwack! (2x4 across tree's forehead) Dude. Shut up.
Your wife just said "I don't feel very optimistic." ok, it's not "Hey, why don't youc arry me off to bed, you superstar!"
But she is still there. She ain't gone and you are standing, aren't you?
Does Brett Favre throw in the towel when he's down 14 pts in the 4th quarter? Does Eli Manning say "Maybe it is time to give up..." when he is down 7 against "The Best Team in History" in the Superbowl?
Keep doing your thing, Tree! And keep that chin up!
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....
