No children to draw him back.....no what???

[brantacan]

PR,

just going through your threads for the first time. thanks for the kind words you had for me to my post in the WAW forum.

when you guys first met it sounds like you were a more confident woman and knew how to make yourself happy. That confidence and independence are probably what drew your H to you during that courting phase prior to marriage and had him professing his love outside your window. You need to regain that part of you, and not for him, but for you. 1.) you put yourself in the best position to move forward if things don't work out, and 2.) there's a greater chance that a confident, independent "you" will create doubt in his mind compared to a desperate, clingy "you".

I'm at about 8.5 months and still struggling with this, and ask the same questions you do, so don't feel like you're alone. just believe in yourself and know that better days are ahead.