well today in counseluing she said that i have called her fat and ugly. i was shocked i never called her that once in our lives!!! it turnes out that when we moved and she BEGGED for a gym membership and she only went a total of 7 times in 1 year. i would ask her why wasent she using her membership. well io guess thats me tryingh to make her feel ugly and telling her shes fat.
OK guys heres the 1000 doller question. i reaslise that a huge premis is not bringing up your side and letting them vent. but WHAT DO YOU DO when they are taking EVERYTHING you said and making it negative. my W in inventing her own reality here. my friends say i cant just keep bending over and taking this because it just reinforces her belife thats shes right if noone tells her she is wrong. ok what do i do then? HELP
