Well, this morning, I was not going to say anything about the receipt, but for some reason, as he sat at the table with his coffee, I just said it. I said hey H, I found a receipt the other day, I don't know where I put it, but it had three pieces of jewelry on it, one for my birthday, one for Christmas, and a third one that wasn't for me, so I was just wondering what was up with that.
he said I don't know what you are talking about, I didn't buy three pieces of jewelry, and asked me to describe what the receipt said, and expressed more puzzlement over it. Then he said he guessed I would forever be snooping through his stuff, and when I said I found it in the hallway behind a suitcase when I was cleaning, he wanted to know where the receipt was now. I said I don't know where I put it, and he said THAT was odd.
So, he was very silent and finished getting ready for work, and I never raised my voice or accused him of anything. We kissed goodbye, and said ILY to each other, and he left. I called him at lunchtime to chat, and we never said word one about it. So, I don't know what tonight will bring from him...
It's so weird, but I will not bring it up again.
I just know that he knows that I know he is up to something, and needs to think about it and his lying continuously to me.
So, anyway that's that.
And cat, i don't want you to leave these forums, I went over and read the first part of your updates, and I am glad you decided to stay. The crap and vile trash your H spewed out at you, is just like some of the garbage my H will spew at me. Stupidly enough he said I stuck him with a kid (he denies this, now) even though we were married 8 yrs before he was even born!!