I only hope and pray the loss of this wonderful animal will awake your spouse in seeing what a wonderful loving person you are.
Sometimes it takes a crisis for one to get out of a crisis.
I can't help but look for a silver lining in your sitch.
Take care of you and the children...
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11