IF my advice was contrary to DBing or Michele's I would expect to be banned. : )
MLC is different, but the same principals can be used, just my personal belief that the reliance on and or order of those principals needs to be skewed to an MLC situation.
My belief is that MLC is a war of attrition. Cataloguing fuzzy baby bunny steps usually don't last past the first 3 months, putting faith in them...becomes another expectation that will let you down.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
The MLC resources saved me 2 years ago - I needed to read, I needed info from others who have worked through MLC one way or another.
I could see some snippets of relevance, I felt " normal".
I've been to C, professional input isn't always so helpful, empathy is what you receive from real life experience - that is what I got from the resources.
no not really lurking...6-7 hours of jury duty till the middle of March...damn...the ides of march... so very very little time here...which isn't so bad actually. Kind of like cold medicine, numb to the events.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
Great thread....it's already at the top linked in the thread with Michele's article.
PFFFFTTT. Nice condescending comment.
Now try doing something really impressive, that so many people are asking you for, and put the MLC Resources BACK in a thread of their own, stuck at the top of this forum and leave it to the people to decide if it's a worthy thread or not.
And restore RCR back to our ranks with her banned profile fully intact with links to every post she ever made...
That's the mark of a leader, sg...
They listen to what their people ask for just as much as they guide them towards a broader vision.
It's buried in a thread that's pinned at the top. I've linked to it a few times in the past week, ever single person that has commented about it was amazed. They were so relieved to know that they were not alone, and that they were not crazy! It doesn't solve anything, but it gives people hope. And they are not going anywhere without that.
