I'd be cautious in telling her how she "should" feel -
Yes NikB. I have read the books. I should have said " well at least you don't have to worry about our marriage or me leaving. this should help."
I Always watch for the telling her how "she feels" issue. Things are ok today. I have buryed my R feelings at this time. It is so hard. but I am going to do it. Oh ya by the way NikB. I forgot to mention she took the "I need sex" message how you thought she would. My Bad..
Later off to work on the tree house
Dr Love
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know