ok, got it. I know a little peck is hard to accept. Listen, right now, in my situation, I would accept it. Right now I have protection orders, not pecks. Hmmmmm..... maybe I am the crazy one? for continuing to stand... But! I am hijacking...
I agree, Tree, something's gotta give eventually. These things do take time. What can you do to move things along in a positive direction? Maybe not much. Sounds like Jody's advice makes sense - avoid the situations that cause her to unload on you. This won't necessarily move things along, but it might prevent things from deteriorating.
I know this is hard.
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....