Short, I agree with you...and what if your H NEVER talks about your R...

How long are you supposed to wait for them to talk about wanting to go to MC or to talk about your R?

My H talks in riddles all the time and I cannot tell if he wants to file, wants me to file or is just feeling me out.

Plus, I have no idea if he has OW...who may, or may not have a large influence on him.

How long do we wait for these answers to reveal themselves?

The man I look at now...does not resemble the man I married very much so I know I cannot gauge his responses based on anything I knew of the man in the past.

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller